Culture Shock and Counseling
As an AKP student, whether full year or single semester, you will confront challenges as you adjust to new and unfamiliar cultural situations. Experts have identified five stages of adaptation that individuals frequently encounter while they adjust to new cultural situations. An awareness of these stages can help you deal with each step constructively. Not everyone goes through these five stages in precisely the same way; nor is it even possible to predict how long each stage will last for any individual.
Culture Shock: Stages of Adaptation
The main experience in this stage is bewilderment mixed with exhilaration; finding your way around Kyoto and its environs can be both confusing and exciting. Despite the bewilderment, most people are prepared for it and generally accept the fact that getting lost, encountering problems shopping, etc., will require a
good amount of forbearance. As each of these tasks becomes easier, the cultural situation becomes less confusing.
This is probably the most euphoric stage, as you come to appreciate the novelty of your new cultural situation. Everything seems to be fascinating, intriguing, and amusing. Every day brings new encounters, new adventures, and new people. You may find yourself seeking to identify with Japan and Japanese culture as fully as possible.
Familiarity and interest can breed a kind of contempt and indifference, both on your part and on the part of Japanese people you frequently encounter. Some of the symptoms you might encounter include: a feeling of loneliness and alienation; a need to depend on other foreigners; disproportionate irritation with delays and other usually minor frustrations; desire to stay in the familiar areas of your new environment, etc. At this point you may realize that you are an outsider and will always be one. There will be occasions (such as Thanksgiving) that have no parallels in Japanese culture; while on the other hand events peculiar to Japanese culture may seem impossible to participate in meaningfully. It is important to realize the signs of this stage, strive to move through it as best you can, and keep things in perspective.
When entering this stage, it is important to realize that the phenomenon called “culture shock” is a normal occurrence; it is not something unique to you. Strive to determine what things frustrate you, especially attitudes, beliefs, and assumptions that differ radically from your own culture. Focus on the fact that these very differences can enhance your Kyoto experience, because the discovery of these differences is one of the reasons you chose to come to Japan to begin with.Relax, take a deep breath, and be glad you are living in an exciting and new cultural setting, but certainly not one without its own problems. Accept what surrounds you, and give what you can of yourself and your own culture.
This stage can be a little painful, as you realize that you will leave behind new friends and a lot of unfinished experiences, not to mention the “reverse” culture shock that awaits you at home. Having reached this point, however, evaluating and integrating your Japan experience in your own cultural environment will be much less frustrating.
Are you having issues beyond what you believe is normal culture shock? The Resident Director, the Language Faculty, the Kyoto Center Staff, the Program Administrator, and your peers may be your best resources. They understand what you are going through, and are usually able to provide the support and advice that you need. Remember that you are not alone, and confide in them! There is no shame in seeking help.
An English-speaking counselor is available every Wednesday and Friday at the Doshisha Counseling Center at Kambaikan. More information on the Counseling Center can be found on page 42. If you need additional help from a native English speaker trained in counseling for more serious issues, contact the Kyoto Center office staff or RD, and they will set up an appointment with one of the counselors with whom AKP has established an on-going relationship. AKP will subsidize any counseling fees with our appointed counselors. If you are seeing a counselor in the U.S., it may be beneficial to ask about Skype counseling sessions while you are in Japan.
If you are bringing psychiatric medications with you to Japan, please check the Bringing Medications into Japan page.